diff --git a/django/forms/models.py b/django/forms/models.py
index 2a3f8bd..1f946a0 100644
--- a/django/forms/models.py
+++ b/django/forms/models.py
@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@ from forms import BaseForm, get_declared_fields
 from fields import Field, ChoiceField
 from widgets import SelectMultiple, HiddenInput, MultipleHiddenInput
 from widgets import media_property
-from formsets import BaseFormSet, formset_factory, DELETION_FIELD_NAME
+from formsets import BaseFormSet, formset_factory
 
 __all__ = (
     'ModelForm', 'BaseModelForm', 'model_to_dict', 'fields_for_model',
@@ -588,13 +588,10 @@ class BaseModelFormSet(BaseFormSet):
             pk_value = getattr(pk_value, 'pk', pk_value)
 
             obj = self._existing_object(pk_value)
-            if self.can_delete:
-                raw_delete_value = form._raw_value(DELETION_FIELD_NAME)
-                should_delete = form.fields[DELETION_FIELD_NAME].clean(raw_delete_value)
-                if should_delete:
-                    self.deleted_objects.append(obj)
-                    obj.delete()
-                    continue
+            if self.can_delete and self._should_delete_form(form):
+                self.deleted_objects.append(obj)
+                obj.delete()
+                continue
             if form.has_changed():
                 self.changed_objects.append((obj, form.changed_data))
                 saved_instances.append(self.save_existing(form, obj, commit=commit))
@@ -609,11 +606,8 @@ class BaseModelFormSet(BaseFormSet):
                 continue
             # If someone has marked an add form for deletion, don't save the
             # object.
-            if self.can_delete:
-                raw_delete_value = form._raw_value(DELETION_FIELD_NAME)
-                should_delete = form.fields[DELETION_FIELD_NAME].clean(raw_delete_value)
-                if should_delete:
-                    continue
+            if self.can_delete and self._should_delete_form(form):
+                continue
             self.new_objects.append(self.save_new(form, commit=commit))
             if not commit:
                 self.saved_forms.append(form)
diff --git a/tests/regressiontests/model_formsets_regress/tests.py b/tests/regressiontests/model_formsets_regress/tests.py
index 3354fc5..368c5b0 100644
--- a/tests/regressiontests/model_formsets_regress/tests.py
+++ b/tests/regressiontests/model_formsets_regress/tests.py
@@ -283,3 +283,128 @@ class FormfieldCallbackTests(TestCase):
         modelformset_factory(UserSite, form=UserSiteForm,
                              formfield_callback=callback)
         self.assertCallbackCalled(callback)
+
+
+# mixin class for #14099 regression
+from django.forms.formsets import BaseFormSet, DELETION_FIELD_NAME
+from django.forms.models import BaseModelFormSet
+
+class BaseCustomDeleteFormSet(BaseFormSet):
+    """
+    A formset mix-in that lets a form decide if it's to be deleted
+    Works for BaseFormSets. Also works for ModelFormSets with #14099
+
+    form.should_delete() is called. The formset delete field is also suppressed.
+    """
+    def add_fields(self, form, index):
+        super(BaseCustomDeleteFormSet, self).add_fields(form, index)
+        self.can_delete = True
+        if DELETION_FIELD_NAME in form.fields:
+            del form.fields[DELETION_FIELD_NAME]
+
+    def _should_delete_form(self, form):
+        return hasattr(form, 'should_delete') and form.should_delete()
+
+
+class FormfieldShouldDeleteFormTests(TestCase):
+    """
+    Regression for #14099: BaseModelFormSet should use ModelFormSet method _should_delete_form
+    """
+
+    class BaseCustomDeleteModelFormSet(BaseModelFormSet, BaseCustomDeleteFormSet):
+        """ Model FormSet with CustomDelete MixIn """
+
+    class CustomDeleteUserForm(forms.ModelForm):
+        """ A model form with a 'should_delete' method """
+        class Meta:
+            model = User
+
+        def should_delete(self):
+            """ delete form if odd PK """
+            return self.instance.id % 2
+
+    Normal_Formset = modelformset_factory(User, form=CustomDeleteUserForm, can_delete=True)
+    Delete_Formset = modelformset_factory(User, form=CustomDeleteUserForm, formset=BaseCustomDeleteModelFormSet)
+
+    data = {
+            'form-TOTAL_FORMS': '4',
+            'form-INITIAL_FORMS': '0',
+            'form-MAX_NUM_FORMS': '4',
+            'form-0-username': 'John',
+            'form-0-serial': '1',
+            'form-1-username': 'Paul',
+            'form-1-serial': '2',
+            'form-2-username': 'George',
+            'form-2-serial': '3',
+            'form-3-username': 'Ringo',
+            'form-3-serial': '5',
+            }
+
+    bound_ids = {
+            'form-INITIAL_FORMS': '4',
+            'form-0-id': '1',
+            'form-1-id': '2',
+            'form-2-id': '3',
+            'form-3-id': '4',
+            }
+
+    delete_all_ids = {
+            'form-0-DELETE': '1',
+            'form-1-DELETE': '1',
+            'form-2-DELETE': '1',
+            'form-3-DELETE': '1',
+            }
+
+    def test_init_database(self):
+        """ Add test data to database via formset """
+        formset = self.Normal_Formset(self.data)
+        self.assertTrue(formset.is_valid())
+        self.assertEqual(len(formset.save()), 4)
+
+    def test_no_delete(self):
+        """ Verify base formset doesn't modify database """
+        # reload database
+        self.test_init_database()
+
+        # pass standard data dict & see none updated
+        data = dict(self.data)
+        data.update(self.bound_ids)
+        formset = self.Normal_Formset(data, queryset=User.objects.all())
+        self.assertTrue(formset.is_valid())
+        self.assertEqual(len(formset.save()), 0)
+        self.assertEqual(len(User.objects.all()), 4)
+
+    def test_all_delete(self):
+        """ Verify base formset honors DELETE field """
+        # reload database
+        self.test_init_database()
+
+        # create data dict with all fields marked for deletion
+        data = dict(self.data)
+        data.update(self.bound_ids)
+        data.update(self.delete_all_ids)
+        formset = self.Normal_Formset(data, queryset=User.objects.all())
+        self.assertTrue(formset.is_valid())
+        self.assertEqual(len(formset.save()), 0)
+        self.assertEqual(len(User.objects.all()), 0)
+
+    def test_custom_delete(self):
+        """ Verify custom_dete formset ignores DELETE field & uses form method """
+        # reload database
+        self.test_init_database()
+
+        # Create formset with custom Delete function
+        # create data dict with all fields marked for deletion
+        data = dict(self.data)
+        data.update(self.bound_ids)
+        data.update(self.delete_all_ids)
+        formset = self.Delete_Formset(data, queryset=User.objects.all())
+
+        # verify two were deleted
+        self.assertTrue(formset.is_valid())
+        self.assertEqual(len(formset.save()), 0)
+        self.assertEqual(len(User.objects.all()), 2)
+
+        # verify no "odd" PKs left
+        odd_ids = [user.id for user in User.objects.all() if user.id % 2]
+        self.assertEqual(len(odd_ids), 0)
